Few days to lover’s day festival popularly known as valentine, it got to our notice that men revolt at normal way of celebrating valentine whereby women be the one collecting gifts from men.
The argument happened among men that women suppose to give them gifts instead of way round. After all, the history established the fact that men has always be the one who died for the love of woman.
Valentine died for love, but women claim the gifts. What about others that died for love such as Romeo, In book of Romeo and Juliet, Samson in the Bible with Delilah, Jack in Titanic, Greek heroes Hercules & Archilles. They all died for Love of women.
Meanwhile Jesus Christ died for the love of humanity not for the love of women. The love of God has no limitations, it has no boundaries neither gender differences, His love saves humanity from their sins. Jesus Christ died to reconcile us back to God. His death brought peace between man and his creator, God.
Weither male or female, black or white. The love of Christ cut across all languages, tribes and cultures. His love should not be compared with that of Valentine, who died because of woman. This was the contribution of the director of operations daymantv, Mr Olawuyi Olukayode.
In a nutshell, men are advocating that women should appreciate their love and bring them good gifts. And if women refuse this new order of observing valentine then they should stop demanding gifts from men.
They also further said that history has never recorded a woman that died for love. They said Ruth in the Bible did not died for love rather she remarried to a very rich man from her late husband’s family.
But a young man who remain anonymous said that men has forgotten that women has been the sustainability and support system for man’s existence. He said without women preserving the seed of men, the world would be void of men. And likewise without women there would be no love and world would be like a grave yard.
He also established that men were commanded to love their wives while wives were encouraged to submit to their own husbands. Women are the support system for men and therefore, men should learn to express his love to them through giving, while women should appreciate man’s love by submitting to their leadership.
However, as valentine day approaches it is very important to know that true love requires constant communications between the two lovers, either verbal or non verbal. Meanwhile giving the gifts shouldn’t be one sided. Although giving remains the most powerful means of communcating ones love and it should be both part sided. Man can give gifts to his lover woman while woman also can give gifts to her lover man. This is the nature of a true love.
As you celebrate valentine, for those who are yet to be married be careful for it is dangerous for any one to allow the passion of youthful exuberant leads him or her to the land of painful regrets.
Remember, sex is not true way of expressing love. To make love is to put others into consideration in all your decision. Therefore, do not be deceived by sweet quoted month of men and sell your future for the enjoyment that last for few minutes.
In conclusion, women reconsider the request of men at this year valentine day celebration and give gifts to your loverman. Likewise men do not stop giving your wives gifts for it makes ways for you any day and at anytime. Happy valentine!